tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post3533012128455938062..comments2023-05-22T11:05:54.009-04:00Comments on Detour to Motherhood: I Ruined My BodyFieryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-39842976120180918402013-03-04T01:12:21.336-05:002013-03-04T01:12:21.336-05:00oh I love this! Thank you so much for visiting my ...oh I love this! Thank you so much for visiting my blog at.I think my readers will really <a href="http://www.kenleong.com.au/" rel="nofollow">infertility Australia</a> appriciate all the hard work that when into this post.kenloenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11011243760906089731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-3268691539743210122012-12-10T20:35:01.546-05:002012-12-10T20:35:01.546-05:00I nominated you for a liebster! You can check it o...I nominated you for a liebster! You can check it out on my blog :)Fly Me Awayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11889912064709087935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-32762469303713311442012-11-26T15:20:56.454-05:002012-11-26T15:20:56.454-05:00Thinking of you. Thinking of you. KayBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08658373485056670950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-81976713565729714042012-11-10T18:18:10.930-05:002012-11-10T18:18:10.930-05:00Regrets and "what ifs" are a sonofabitch...Regrets and "what ifs" are a sonofabitch and add so much pain to already crappy circumstances. As I feel like I've tried to tell myself and others a million times the past few years... you did the best you could with the information you had at the time. I know that doesn't help or change anything, but I hope that you continue to find healing for all of your pain, physical and mental, because you deserve none of it.Mrs. Brightsidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12837199593414978292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-39459635152993990832012-11-03T20:32:14.535-04:002012-11-03T20:32:14.535-04:00I am so sorry that TTC has wreaked havoc on your b...I am so sorry that TTC has wreaked havoc on your body - on top of the whole despair of the whole infertility thing, chronic pain is just downright unfair. What is the solution to this? Is this a "time will heal" type thing, a "more surgeries required" type thing or a "must live with this forever" type thing?<br /><br />You're in my thoughts - you are not alone in any of this.Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15032718306225742021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-22866141653194885812012-10-30T18:32:04.671-04:002012-10-30T18:32:04.671-04:00Thanks, Robin. :)Thanks, Robin. :)Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-57650580490892657632012-10-30T18:31:51.136-04:002012-10-30T18:31:51.136-04:00Thanks. :)Thanks. :)Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-4298057335521140122012-10-30T18:31:33.737-04:002012-10-30T18:31:33.737-04:00Hey Jay, thanks so much for your comment. I'l...Hey Jay, thanks so much for your comment. I'll be emailing you!Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-91117395545210095322012-10-30T18:30:34.284-04:002012-10-30T18:30:34.284-04:00Yes, we shouldn't overlook the little victorie...Yes, we shouldn't overlook the little victories! Thanks. :)Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-81230306512038362192012-10-28T10:45:17.278-04:002012-10-28T10:45:17.278-04:00It sucks when THAT is the big victory of the day (...It sucks when THAT is the big victory of the day (even though that is a victory). I wish that one day your pain will disappear and never return :(robinhttp://polycysticinside.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-15960918161027382352012-10-28T10:28:58.895-04:002012-10-28T10:28:58.895-04:00Yeah, I haven't been given the green light fro...Yeah, I haven't been given the green light from my PT to do anything that strenuous. I'm still at the point where taking a walk can give me pelvic pain that lasts for days. :(Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-52534932165372421052012-10-28T09:07:26.247-04:002012-10-28T09:07:26.247-04:00All I can say is how sorry I am and how much I wis...All I can say is how sorry I am and how much I wish your pain (all kinds) would end.Her Royal Fabulousnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04008723588326617669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-55175550456633642882012-10-28T01:20:06.964-04:002012-10-28T01:20:06.964-04:00So many things we cannot change or could never ant...So many things we cannot change or could never anticipate....fate did this to you,you did not do it to yourself. I've heard stories of a couple of people with pelvic pain, and its utter unrelenting hell. Most chronic pain syndromes are and they take over your life till you can't do much else. I lived with one once (carpal tunnel heading towards chronic regional pain syndrome) for a month once and it had taken over till it was all I could think about.<br /><br />I think the one thing you should focus on, and not give up on, is trying to fix this, because it CAN be fixed, you have to find the right doctors, or get your doctor to try something else for you. In this regard--- I can try to give you the email of one of the pelvic pain patients I know, if you are interested. She had a pretty awful time of it and her quality of life was ruined for years, I think, but today she is pain free. Let me know if you want it! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-47363779694297548712012-10-27T19:34:05.354-04:002012-10-27T19:34:05.354-04:00I hope you are having a better day with the pain s...I hope you are having a better day with the pain soon and i want to say congrats on the not crying victory. Seriously, sometimes even being able to do something as "simple" as that should be applauded. We have all shed too many tears.Seagullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07098454465500394677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-23975390263674288362012-10-27T18:20:51.746-04:002012-10-27T18:20:51.746-04:00Have you thought about doing the couch to 5k to st...Have you thought about doing the couch to 5k to strengthen yourself? Having fibromyalgia I know about those my pinkie finger hurts so I can't move my leg muscles. Hoping you have a better days soon.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-57325936096791074572012-10-27T11:15:36.722-04:002012-10-27T11:15:36.722-04:00Thanks. :) I'm still pushing for our surf vac...Thanks. :) I'm still pushing for our surf vacation + lessons to be in Hawaii rather than nearby, though. We've gotta do it right!Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-48315416762176645852012-10-27T11:13:02.103-04:002012-10-27T11:13:02.103-04:00Yeah. Usually I don't fret too much about my ...Yeah. Usually I don't fret too much about my decisions, but recently I keep wanting to go back in time and redo some things. Not have that last surgery, ugh.Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-68982524550017900482012-10-27T11:10:53.781-04:002012-10-27T11:10:53.781-04:00"It blows" doesn't sound silly at al..."It blows" doesn't sound silly at all. Most of the time all I can say about it is "this sucks." So yeah, it does. :\Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-41590924897492762542012-10-27T11:08:56.219-04:002012-10-27T11:08:56.219-04:00Thank you so much--appreciate the hug!!Thank you so much--appreciate the hug!!Fieryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-43609680898375666812012-10-27T10:07:24.326-04:002012-10-27T10:07:24.326-04:00Hindsight sucks sometimes, and it's also not a...Hindsight sucks sometimes, and it's also not as clear as people make it out to be. You only know what you know when you first make decisions... how can you know what will transpire afterwards? Don't beat yourself up. I have lots of hope that you will be up learning to surf or traveling to Australia or something fun in the future. Hopefully, you will look back on this time as a dark time that is over... very soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-80168750305818014022012-10-27T00:13:41.708-04:002012-10-27T00:13:41.708-04:00I think at some point many of us regret or questio...I think at some point many of us regret or question our decisions. I know I question my decision to put us in so much debt over IF. I wonder why I didn't just find a way to live childless and be happy with my decision. You can't turn back time and have a do-over and the thought of not trying your best for something you really want is hard. We try our hardest in all other aspects of life (work, family, hobbies), why shouldn't we try to achieve our dreams in this area too? Don't be too hard on yourself. You had no idea this would be the outcome and just did what you thought was best at the time.<br />I do understand though...ADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-41529971551967337502012-10-26T22:50:27.873-04:002012-10-26T22:50:27.873-04:00Oh dear. I am sorry that you're going through...Oh dear. I am sorry that you're going through all that.. as silly and small as it sounds, that really blows. :(<br /><br />smug pregginess. Oh so familiar.Stupid Storkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00161877442649107282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-63768517968203344282012-10-26T20:15:15.767-04:002012-10-26T20:15:15.767-04:00Infertility can take so much away from us. Sending...Infertility can take so much away from us. Sending you such a big hug. I am so sorry for all that you've gone through. Congrats on that victory today!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01994163573776780090noreply@blogger.com