tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post1533306875974088387..comments2023-05-22T11:05:54.009-04:00Comments on Detour to Motherhood: Happy Anniversary to MeFieryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06477507213781894921noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-66494482619067250042012-06-06T13:10:01.297-04:002012-06-06T13:10:01.297-04:00Raising my glass to the 5 year wedding anniversary...Raising my glass to the 5 year wedding anniversary... raising my middle finger to the 3 year TTC one. Not to disrespect your journey and all you've been through. I just hate IF so much, that my middle finger gets twitchy when I hear anniversary stories. Three years is too long to struggle like this. Especially when you are dealing with as much (or more) physical pain as emotional pain. Every single minute of that time counts, by the way. I've been into athletic analogies for some reason lately. Not sure what's up with that. :)But I know the pros still get paid for seasons they are out due to injury. You definitly get credit for the time you are unable to actively TTC due to extenuating circumstances. <br />Hang in there, my dear.Callamaz00!https://www.blogger.com/profile/05627425829893513322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-41957514706316914322012-06-05T16:00:39.308-04:002012-06-05T16:00:39.308-04:00Happy wedding anniversary! 5 years is a big deal, ...Happy wedding anniversary! 5 years is a big deal, congrats!! I know what you mean about the TTC time line thing. We took 6 months off in our first year...so even though it's been 2.5 years since we started, I feel like I'm lying if I say "we've been trying for 2.5 years." Regardless, it's still a long chunk of time that has gone by!Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11703481094197544196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-4225457735198381842012-06-04T22:12:20.518-04:002012-06-04T22:12:20.518-04:00I agree about minimizing pain. I often use the phr...I agree about minimizing pain. I often use the phrase "only three miscarriages" - but in what world is "only three" not painful? Whatever you decide about the pain docs, I wish you luck. And happy anniversary!aplusefforthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12142056896638707180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-76379676640648510272012-06-04T20:25:00.435-04:002012-06-04T20:25:00.435-04:00I know what you mean about minimizing the pain. I ...I know what you mean about minimizing the pain. I am just now hitting three years TTC with one big loss. But there were a couple months here and there where I was not technically trying to conceive or was on BC waiting to start IVF. Does that knock out those months? I thought so, just as I wrote that I was on my three year anniversary. But you know what?<br />I did want a baby for three years enough to go through hell and back. I was in persuit of pregnancy, pregnant, or grieving. I think those months count and I will damn well claim them. You should too.<br /><br />I am sorry you are in so much pain still and wish I could do something. I think it wouldn't hurt to talk to one more person. Maybe it will give you a peace of mind. Good luck hon.ADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-60454781342466816282012-06-04T00:14:03.322-04:002012-06-04T00:14:03.322-04:00I read your previous post and I'm afraid I did...I read your previous post and I'm afraid I didn't comment, as I felt helpless to say anything that might help you, given the pain you're in. I'm glad my post helped. I'm also glad you're looking at options - and a second opinion might help too. I sometimes think we can feel better simply by trying to do something pro-active.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-55756630932728860202012-06-03T18:42:05.985-04:002012-06-03T18:42:05.985-04:00Happy wedding anniversary!Happy wedding anniversary!One and Done?https://www.blogger.com/profile/12138505446552865273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6100765666925501518.post-79836087692387330002012-06-03T15:10:30.144-04:002012-06-03T15:10:30.144-04:00I'm hoping that the pill will help with your p...I'm hoping that the pill will help with your pain.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.com